Thursday, February 4, 2010

things have changed

so it's been a couple of days since my last blog and things have changed. i had a holiday party 4 work this past weekend and igot really really drunk, i needed it after the past couple of weeks i've had, anywho jeff went with me and we actually talked and on the way home he decided to inform me that when he went to the doctors that week they had noticed that his lung fuction was VERY poor and that he needed to stop smoking asap. he also has informed me that he thinks that there are other things the matter with him besides his crap lungs and that he was probably going to die sooner then later. GREAT so i started to cry and told him about the cruise in april. we are kinda back to normal but not really- i hope that he doesn't die anytime soon but that there will be other changes besides his smoking, ie his drinking and the nasty way that he talks to me. he has really tried, with my help course, to ask me things instead of telling me things, like when he thinks the kids need a bath, instead of saying "go give the kids a bath", he says "would you please give the kids a bath" i let him know the diiference a please and thank you can make in a statement or question. anyway we are working on things and i guess we'll see what comes of the blood tests that he's having on monday and the chantix he starts to aid in the quitting of smoking- i hope everything works out cause i guess i really do lve the jackass afer everything- as long as we try to continue to talk with some respect i think that it's a good start for us....

1 comment:

  1. Wow...sounds so adult and productive...it's great. EXCEPT for the fact that the conversation was initiated by Jeff talking about dying...I think youneed to go to the dr with him to learn exactly what's going on. I'm sure he's not dying, but it sounds like the dr scared the pants off him and maybe that's good so he'll make some big changes. I hope he's ok...

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